I don’t like roses. I never read romance books. And under no uncertain terms do I want anyone reading poetry to me!
According to the media and most romance movies, I am not a “romantic person.” But that’s not really true at all.
You see, my primary Love Language is Quality Time. A romantic evening to me involves hanging out with my hubby on a Friday night. I don’t need gifts or flowery speeches, just the sacrifice of his time.
In other words, my Romance Language coincides with my Love Language—and I bet the same holds true for your wife!
According to Gary Chapman, author of the hugely successful series The 5 Love Languages, all of us have a primary Love Language. When our spouses and families speak to us in this language, we hear them loud and clear, and we feel truly loved.
So if you want to introduce a little romance this Valentine’s Day (or any day for that matter), stop and consider your wife’s Love Language. Here are some suggestions.
Words of Affirmation
Tell her you love her. If you miss this one, you’ll miss the boat entirely.
Tell her why you love her—and be specific.
Write a love letter. It doesn’t have to be long or filled with quotes or poetry. She’ll love the fact that you